How many times have you felt that you would scare a woman away when you try to "make a move"?
More often than I will admit, I'm sure.
There is this “state of mind” that women have a sexual interest in you.
This makes things painful when dating, right?
If you're a guy who does not have a strong personality, sexually, then make your move on a woman is not even an option in your game plan.
And you can play games for a smiley happy with a woman you want with the hope that it will take your hand and lead you to where you would like things to go.
Then reality kicks in.
One possibility is the lack of dating experience. And this lack of experience supplements your lack of confidence with women.
In reality it is really just your mind defeating yourself whenever you are interested in a woman and it doesn’t get anywhere.
Let's change that and stop believing you’re hopeless. From this point on let’s start believing that you're actually just a "slow starter" with women instead.
Don’t count yourself out before the referee has called the match. If your mind believes it has lost before the battle has even started lowers your chances. Even worse, it may be written all over your attitude and your face. Half the battle is believing in yourself, why wouldn’t someone like you? That’s not to say you should be cocky and arrogant, but believing in yourself can go a long way. Some women actually find confidence a turn on.
In conclusion, having confidence goes a long way, and can determine the fate from beginning-to-end of this experience.
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